{"id":28205,"date":"2020-09-12T07:00:12","date_gmt":"2020-09-12T07:00:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/restonic.com\/sin-categorizar\/want-happier-blissful-relationship-better-sex-sleep-answer"},"modified":"2020-09-12T07:00:12","modified_gmt":"2020-09-12T07:00:12","slug":"want-happier-blissful-relationship-better-sex-sleep-answer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/restonic.com\/es\/blog-es\/want-happier-blissful-relationship-better-sex-sleep-answer","title":{"rendered":"Want a Happier, More Blissful Relationship? Sleep is the Answer!"},"content":{"rendered":"

Science says couples fight less and love more when they have enough sleep<\/h2>\n

Relationships can be challenging. On a daily basis, you\u2019re running up against issues ranging from money challenges and division of household chores, to drama involving extended family and kids. At the best of times, those concerns can be tricky to navigate while attempting to maintain harmony with your partner. But if you\u2019re sleep deprived, you may need to add irritability and a depressed mood to the mix \u2013 talk about setting the stage for marital discord<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Not to be the harbinger of bad news but all that sniping and bickering aren\u2019t just bad for your marriage \u2013 they can be devastating for your long-term health. An Ohio State study found that sleepless, married partners, not only experienced hostile exchanges, but had higher levels of inflammatory proteins in their blood post-conflict. An abundance of these proteins can be linked to a host of illnesses and conditions, including inflammatory bowel disease, joint issues like rheumatoid arthritis, heart disease and cancer.\u00a0By the way, those proteins are also tied to sleep disruption<\/a> itself, creating a vicious cycle of poor quality rest.<\/p>\n

Working through the dynamics of a relationship short on sleep<\/h2>\n

\"ScienceWe know lack of sleep is disruptive but its impact on relationships is a wake-up call. \u201cA person who is sleep-deprived may have low frustration tolerance, a short fuse, moodiness, grumpiness, raw nerves, and vulnerability to losing his temper,\u201d explains Dr. Fran Walfish<\/a>, a Beverly Hills-based family, relationship psychotherapist and author,\u00a0The Self-Aware Parent, and co-star on Sex Box, WE tv.\u00a0\u201cHe or she also has a thinner barrier of self-protection from emotional injuries and hurts that might ordinarily be let go. One sleep-deprived partner in a couple is challenging, but two are a quick pathway to trouble. Bickering and nitpicking can quickly turn into a War of the Roses-like situation!\u201d<\/p>\n

The Ohio State Institute of Behavioral Medicine research study confirmed the effects of sleep deprivation in relationships by studying the sleep habits and behaviors of couples<\/a> married anywhere from 3 to 27 years and whose sleep time ranged from 3.5 to 9 hours a night. Among those who slept less \u2013 shockingly \u2013 moods were poorer and participants were grumpy. Twosomes were more hostile toward each other when they functioned with less than 7 hours of sleep. Meanwhile, well-rested couples still had disagreements, but the way they handled them was different, approaching conflicts in a more constructive, collaborative manner.<\/p>\n

The one bright spot from the data published in Psychoneuroendocrinology<\/a> came in circumstances where one partner was well rested and the other was sleep-deprived. With adequate sleep, spouses were able to lessen the impact of their weary better-half. Presumably, they were able to let negativity roll off them easier when unkind words were uttered. Talk about a super power \u2013 sleep!<\/p>\n

Fan the flames of a healthy relationship \u2013 with better sleep!<\/h2>\n

\u201cNot tonight, honey, I\u2019m tired,\u201d is a common excuse used by men and women for not being interested in marital relations with their partners. One study suggest that a quarter of Americans admit falling back on this old standard when they\u2019re too pooped to play.<\/p>\n

Need more evidence that tired partners are no fun \u2013 in bed or otherwise? The Better Sleep Council conducted a survey to find out what\u2019s going on between America\u2019s sheets and found that we\u2019re such a fatigued nation that 6 out of 10 people said they crave sleep more than sex<\/a>. And, oh the horror! Some participants said they have actually fallen asleep during sex.<\/p>\n

According to Dr. Walfish, \u201cFeeling tired can interfere with the quantity, frequency, and quality of sex for couples.\u00a0One partner may fail to reach orgasm because of exhaustion or one fades before each reaches their pleasure zone.\u201d<\/p>\n

People are not going to bed happy<\/a> in homes around the country and it\u2019s all because of a lack of sleep!<\/p>\n

It\u2019s worth remembering that sex plays an important role in maintaining a sense of belonging and closeness in relationships. Smart twosomes can make small changes in their sleep routines<\/a> to ensure their sex lives stay vibrant and satisfying, which could include:<\/p>\n